I’m going to ramble on revivalism, invitationalism, sex and dating for a while.
Last night, our “revival” services continued. These are led by a group of just-out-of-college students, and contain all the usual contemporary worship fare, Powerpoint (ohhhh-ahhhh), the kickin’ band, skits with nerds, good looking guys, college type “preaching”, etc. For all that, they have done a pretty good job, comparatively.We’ve had some groups that had me praying we could get some Mormons to come in and do the services. There apparently was some communication of parts of the Gospel on a couple of days.
Anyway, last night the topic was dating. When you are talking with high school kids, you have to talk about sex and dating. It’s mandatory. So, these guys on the team are being mobbed by girls every day. (One girl said “Oh, I love revival. You get so close to God, and the guys are so cute.” There ya go.) So its time for a corrective, I suppose. After talking about his own experience in finding a woman to marry, the speaker gave an invitation to our students to give up “dating” for six months and get their relationship with God in order. This yielded a few customers, non-daters as best I could tell, and a lot of conversation. Now, here is my take.
First, in a Christian worship service or evangelistic effort, you have one thing to say to lost people: flee to Christ. You may die tonight and you will go to hell without the benefits of the Gospel, so trust in Christ now. Second, telling the lost to do anything else, no matter how practically beneficial is Biblically wrong. Jesus told the rich young ruler to drop everything and follow him now. He didn’t say, “Well, you could try to donate some money to the poor, or work a few hours with Habitat, or give up dating.” Third, the general use of an invitational format for this sort of thing makes the lost person think they have kinda sorta done business with God, without surrendering their lives to him. For example, one girl who headed down the aisle and then went back to her seat, is clearly a lost person and is feeling a certain amount of discomfort with her flagrant sexual promiscuity. What is she thinking? If I make this promise, I’ll feel better? God will say “Now that’s progress?” This is seeker theology at its worst, imo. Fourth, the attractions of the monastery and the convent are always there for Protestants. The Bible says nothing about dating. Preach/teach the Gospel and the Bible and tell these lost kids God has nothing to say about dating, lots to say about Christ, and many specific things to say about relationships, sex, marriage, etc once they are Christians. The idea that the Bible contains “Principles for Success” in all these areas that lost people can access and improve their homes, parenting, dating, finances, etc is ridiculous. It’s Oprah-esque. (Can you picture Moses saying to Pharaoh, “OK, if you don’t want to surrender to Yahweh and let his people go, how about Ten Principles for a Happier Home? Or maybe you’re interested in leadership principles. We could go over some Maxwell stuff….”)
I would love to get up and speak specifically to this in my Good Friday message today, and probably will say that if you are lost, you need Christ now, not some attempt to clean yourself up. You can have your life in order and bust hell wide open. But it is sad to see what is happening to the faith in the hands of boomers and their descendents. A Christless Gospel to a generation whose biggest problem is dating. As Charlie Brown said, “Argh!”