This is in the Triablogue comments. TUAD is a guy obsessed with me. Frank’s practically banned him at Centrui0n, which says something. But he’s decided to take the BBB comment thread and turn it into a discussion of how I caused my wife’s Catholicism.

Tirian observes: “We can’t control what other people do, but we do have great influence over our spouse. If a husband is spiritually stable and solidly orthodox (and leads his family consistently with his profession of faith), then such instances as a wife converting to Roman Catholicism would be rare.”

TUAD: “Tirian, do you think this passage might be applicable in the situation you described?

“But when he asks, he must believe and not doubt, because he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind. That man should not think he will receive anything from the Lord; he is a double-minded man, unstable in all he does.” (James 1:6-8)”

Tirian: Yes.

Our humble diagnoses are in agreement with Scripture.

PWinn- your theory looks better all the time.